I basically want to rant because I don’t have anyone I can tell, and I prefer online friends. I’m a lady and 23 years old. I’m in a relationship of 2 years now, and it’s been going well except that communication has reduced. I’ve tried talking to my partner about it, but he’s not working on it at all. Last month, my so-called partner and I went to a club with his friends, and he went ahead and danced with another lady. I saw him and called him, and he said it’s a normal thing and that I shouldn’t mind. I immediately asked him if it would still be normal if the tables were turned. He couldn’t answer and said it was different. Before you judge me, yes, that’s a serious red flag, but I still love him. I am loved at home, but because I really love him, I tolerated this. Not to mention how we can go for days without talking, which seems normal to him. Please, in everything you do, don’t settle for a nonchalant human being. I’ve not even settled yet. Now I just want to focus on learning my skill and on my studies. How can I detach because I don’t want to be the one to initiate a breakup? Thank you.
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