We’ve been together for 4 years. He loves me so much, adores me, and makes me feel like I’m the only girl in the world. But in the second year of our relationship, I caught him cheating. I was too broken because this guy presented himself like a saint while bad-mouthing other girls to me. He sincerely apologized and begged me. I took him back. After a few weeks, he told me he had changed. Fast forward to 2 years ago, I caught him cheating with so many girls. I broke up for a few months. He apologized and cried blood, but during those times, I went back to my ex who’s in the UK. We never had sex before he left, and he came back to me, saying we should get back together. So I went back to him, and he’s my answered prayer. He’s not a shitty or flirty type.
It’s something I know very well, like he’s so disciplined unlike the one here. So months later, after serious begging, I took the one here back, wanting to see who I would go for later. I’m a very decent girl, and I’ve only had sex with the one here all my life. But last year, I went through his phone and caught him cheating again with so many girls. I left and took him back again, and he promised he had changed. But the one in the UK is so intentional about me. He wants to bring me to the UK for my master’s. He’s coming home this December, but I don’t know how to break up with the one here. I don’t want to go through his phone. What if he has truly changed? What if he’s still cheating? And they both take good care of me, and they are both intentional. But I don’t want to make wrong decisions.
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