I met this guy on December 29th last year on a dating app, and we were vibing well. We met physically in January, and he wasn’t as presentable as I expected, but I liked him because he dressed well. Fast forward to late January, we started dating, and things were going fine. He works in an audit firm, and I’m into tech (freelance product designer). The issues started when he shared details about me with his UK-based brother, including my grade (third class), and gave the impression that I was unemployed. His brother said, “You can’t marry someone jobless.” My guy initially defended me, saying, “I know what I want.” Later, he told me that his dad also said the same thing, and now he’s having doubts about our relationship, even though he really likes me. He started giving me attitude—I’m usually the one calling, and he claims to be busy. I kept complaining, but nothing changed.
He gives me money, and I reciprocate with gifts and sometimes send lunch boxes to his office. One day, he told me not to send gifts until I have a stable income. I told him that if that’s the case, I shouldn’t accept money from him either. We had discussed love languages early on, but now he’s changing the rules, knowing I value communication. I have a feeling his family’s opinion influenced him. When we talked on Sunday, he said he doesn’t want to continue the relationship because I complain too much about him not being available. Are my complaints justified? I need your judgment, please.
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