I need to share my story because I feel so sad right now. I have been seeing this guy since November. We became friends first before partners. We never had sex for two months, then after two months, we started having sex. He has two kids but is not married. The guy and his baby mama were staying together before they had issues and she left. They aren’t married. I came into the picture after she left, but then she started sending me threat messages, always using an unknown number to call me, cursing me, my child, and even my mum. Her friends have attacked me a couple of times. The guy took the issue to the police station and we both made a statement. This guy likes to keep malice; he fights me for days unnecessarily, won’t call, no text, then later he comes to my house to beg. In the space of four months, he has fought me like two million times; it’s just countless! Mind you, while the baby mama is giving me trouble, I have never replied back once. The guy will say I should come, I respect him so much, I kneel when he is angry while I plead. I give him 100% respect! I don’t cheat. I know some people here will say, “You kneel down for someone that has not married you!”
Do your own relationship the way you want to do it. Last week Thursday, I got messages as usual. She commented on some of my pictures on my business page with curses, and for the first time, I got angry and sent messages to the guy, telling him that if I bring my baby daddy into the picture, he will not like it. He should help me tell her to stop! He called thrice; I didn’t pick. He got angry and stopped calling. Yesterday, I went to his house to plead. I was on my knees begging for hours. At the end of the day, he said because I mentioned my baby daddy, my mind is still there. I said no, that since four months ago, I never replied to her, only once, and you are blaming me! We settled, and as I was on my way home, he asked to see me off. Then on our way, a call came in and it was kind of strange. At the end of the call, I asked him who that was and he said she is a friend. He said, “Truth be told, I needed to talk to someone. I don’t want to be frustrated.” I asked him, “In just three days?” He said yes! I cried so much because I have endured a lot from him, his baby mama, and his baby mama’s friends. I have been single for almost five years before I met him. I had good intentions.
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