Three months into our relationship, he started acting nonchalantly. He has cheated on me thrice, and I’ve been forgiving him just because I love him. But the third time was with a girl I know in the neighborhood. When I read their chat on his phone, I found out that he denied dating me in the girl’s DM just to get down with her. I felt so heartbroken. I cried and was so down; I needed someone to lean on. There’s this ex I broke up with for no serious reason. He has never cheated on me, and he’s been in my DM begging me to come back to him.
I wiped my tears, dressed up, and went to his place that day, and we had s€x. I thought I was done with my boyfriend, but then he came back and begged me, promising it would never happen again. I accepted his apologies because, to be frank, he is the one I still feel for the most. I ghosted that ex since then. Truly, my boyfriend seemed to change and has been treating me better. He’s so obsessed with me, and I regretted what happened between me and my ex.
I felt like I shouldn’t have let that happen. My boyfriend later got to know about what happened because he saw the chat on my phone. I begged him to forgive me, but he refused to accept that it was his actions that led me to that. He claimed to forgive me, but whenever we have issues, he always uses that against me like he is a saint. He always brings up the matter. It’s been a year we’ve been dating now, and whenever I try to talk to him about long-term goals,
he says he doesn’t trust me enough to know if we could end up together or not—just because of one mistake I made seven months ago due to how he treated me. Guys, please, I don’t know what to do. Should I stop wasting my time and move on? Can he ever take that chapter out of his head? I forgave him completely three different times, and he finds it hard to forget just one of mine!
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