I’m in a t0xic relationship. I’m not talking about physical abuse; he’s never beaten me. But whenever we have even a small misunderstanding, he calls me names. He tells me I don’t have sense, that I’m stu!d, a f00l, and then he later apologises. Despite his apologies, his words still hurt. This time, things went too far. We were in the car together with his friend in the back. I was crying over our misunderstanding, which started when I requested money while we were on our way. When he dropped me off at my destination, I saw a voice note he sent, saying I have no sense at all and that I was crying like an idi0t—all while his friend was still in the car. Even worse, he didn’t say goodbye as he usually does; it was his friend who said bye instead. After that, he sent a string of messages, telling me, “Am I a prostitute for asking for money while going home?”
He was sha trying to manipulate me and accusing me of asking for money every time I go back home. He continued with different derogatory names, saying things like, “Am I okay, crying like an idi0t, stoopid, with a rubbish attitude?” There is no excuse for talking to me like that in front of his friend. I feel disrespected, and ever since that incident, I haven’t replied to him. And he didn’t apologize. To make matters worse, I left one of my expensive clothes at his place. I should have blasted him for his behavior, but somehow, I couldn’t let go—even of that piece of clothing. I need advice because this guy is too aggressive, and even though he claims he loves me, I’m beginning to wonder: is this really love? Please, what can I do?
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