I have a guy I’m dating for over 8 months now. Although I’m 3 years older than him, which we decided to keep to ourselves, only our parents are aware. We started lovey-dovey, but all of a sudden, we do have misunderstandings. Everything, and most times if we had a misunderstanding, he does try to go back to his ex. Not for dating, but I do read their chat, and there was a time he told his ex I was too troublesome and that he was starting to lose interest. But after we settled the issue and I asked him why she had to share such with her, he just ended up begging and we sorted it out. Though he repeated texting his ex when we had issues again but nothing mutual. But these days we now have issues often, and he does not chat with me sometimes, not until I message him. And all he will keep saying is he’s already seeing me as a wife and will swear he’s not cheating, just that he’s busy. But it’s getting too often. I sent a message to him saying I needed a break, but he never replied called me, or said anything about it. He just moved on, but I found it hard to move on. Please, what can I do? And I don’t want to have a 5th relationship. I’m tired of heartbreak too.
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