Hello, please I need advice from married people. I’m presently dating a guy and we are in a good space, but I’m having concerns about him. When we started dating, we were having conversations and arguments with his friends, and the argument of who comes first in his life when married came up. He argued brutally that his family comes first and not his wife. Now the relationship is getting deeper and I’m scared. Had a similar conversation with him again and basically, it led to the same conclusion. His family comes first!
He’s always defensive when it comes to his siblings. He claims he will love his family and wife, that no one comes first and it’s not a competition. That doesn’t make any sense to me. Please advise and help. Should I run? He’s a very good man—the best man I have ever been with—but the statement scares me. Yes, he loves his family more than anything. Is it a good thing or should I run? I’m of the opinion the wife should come first after marriage. Please married people should advise. Thank you.
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