I was currently healing from a heartbreak when I met my boyfriend. He DM’ed me on Instagram. I replied after several message requests. He was my type of guy—no social media drama, and he’s so calm. It was hard convincing me to date him. After back and forths, we eventually started dating because I needed to heal, and he was so calm and sweet too. He never tells me no whenever I ask him for anything. NGL, I look really happy with him. He was so obsessed with me, and he wouldn’t mind showing it. Even when I was busy with work, he’d leave loads of missed calls and messages for me. I started getting to love and become obsessed with him too, and I was happy again. Until recently when we started having issues because he became less obsessed and would not even call or drop a text for me throughout the day.
I’d call, but he wouldn’t pick up, and all I got really sick of it. I was starting to overthink. At a point, I got tired of the everyday arguments. Last weekend, he opened up to me that his ex came back pregnant. LOL, basically, they were still seeing when we started dating. They’ve not fully broken up when we started (NB: I’ve always had concerns about this same ex because he wouldn’t stop talking about her and how they dated for 5 years. We’ve had issues concerning her a lot). Where was I driving at? He told me they already agreed on terminating the baby, and they did already. No evidence, LOL. The weirdest part is him telling me he still wants me and not his ex, it’s crazy! One minute he says he wants me, the next minute he doesn’t even care, and he never checks on me. He even made a statement, “He can’t manage 2 women.”
Like all of a sudden, you have 2 women in your life, LOL. The hardest part is I was broken when he met me, he literally forced me into the relationship, and now he left me. I’m going crazy and wouldn’t stop crying. I just hope I don’t h*r*t myself because I found out I was pregnant by him after a missed period. Fortunately, it was still very early, and I had to do something about it really early. I went through a pain I don’t wish on my enemy—a whole hot cake crying because of a man who begged me to be with me.
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