I was 18 years old when I lost my virginity, the guy I lost it to wasn’t all that perfect, he only wanted sex all the time, barely gave me attention or cash, and we always had unprotected sex but he would always get me contraceptives afterward. I didn’t know I was getting infected. Along the line, I did tell him that I didn’t feel like I belonged here, towards the end of 2023, the lack of attention became much worse and he kept saying he had some issues he was dealing with, I let him be because I can’t be looking so desperate. Long story cut short I ended my relationship with him because I felt like an option and not a priority. I got into another relationship with this guy who claims to be 25 years old, he was all I ever dreamed of, he wasn’t the best looking, but knows how to take care of a woman, he said I had an infection from my previous partner and treated me, got me medications and all, he made sure my little needs were taken care of, he was ready to spend any amount for me to get a job just so we could be together, I was excited because I felt alive again. He always spoke about being a man of principle and always spoke against me giving out numbers and chatting with random people.
Recently, we came up with a plan that enabled me to stay at his place for a week and I found out things about him that put me in shock, I just can’t wait for this week to be over so I would leave his apartment and his life for good. I kept suspecting that he is older than the age he told me ’cause of certain stories he tells. I decided to do my research and found out he’ll be turning 34 this year, whereas he told me he’ll be turning 26!!! Mind you, I’m currently 19!!!! That aside, we’ve been together for 5 months now and I saw chats with different ladies, how he says he can’t wait to meet them, how he calls them pretty, and cute, I wanted to let it all slide cause most of them occurred in the months we weren’t together but there are still so many that happened of recent. He just keeps bringing himself low, chatting ugly, fine, verified accounts. Most of them barely respond or some talk to him like shit. The whole vibe with him is so off now, I can’t wait for this week to be over so I can leave!!! And leave his life, I know it’s impossible for guys to not cheat but this is someone that’s ready to process flight tickets and visas for me to travel out and he keeps calling me his wife, I don’t want to be involved in all that anymore because he’s a womanizer and not ready to commit!!!! I’m so sorry this is long but I just want to let it all out!!!!
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