I have a partner; we’ve been together for years. Even though there have been ups and downs, he is definitely a good person. My worry is that I love an intentional person so much, but unfortunately, he is not. My boyfriend is so kind that if I ask him for anything, he gives it to me—out of 10 times, he answers all 10. I appreciate him so much for this. But over the course of the relationship, I’ve always been the one initiating things—dates, trips, hangouts, visitations—90% of the time. What makes it harder to get annoyed at is that he’s mostly up for it and engages when we do, but to be honest, I am tired of always planning things about us. He’s not romantic and does not plan anything. As simple as this may sound, this is exactly my love language—a romantic and intentional man. Please, what can I do to make him better in this way? I’ve addressed it a lot over the years, but he’s always too busy for this.
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