Good day everyone. So I met this guy some time ago and we started talking, and after a few weeks we started spending time together. He came to me as a very single man with no baggage; that was what he portrayed throughout. One day, I decided to go through his phone and I discovered that he has a three-year-old daughter and a baby mama who lives in a different state from where we met. I confronted him with this new discovery, and he said he was going to tell me eventually when we get to a certain stage, and that he felt it was too early to start telling me all of that, and that if he had told me initially I might not agree to be with him and would be discouraged, which is true. I told him I can’t be with him, and he started apologizing and talking plenty. This guy is talking about settling down, and right now I am not sure if I can still be with him because of this whole baby mama drama, because I don’t like drama, and it seems like there is some tension between him and the baby mama based on the chats I saw.
Apparently, whenever he calls to check up and speak to his daughter, the lady hardly takes his calls or there must always be something to quarrel about. He said the lady was toxic and was always fighting him, which was why he had to end things with her. He basically just sends child support and still takes up his fatherly responsibilities. I really don’t think I want to be in the midst of all this drama because that lady would be in his life forever, which would bring lots of drama. Apart from this baby mama issue, he is okay in other aspects. I am just trying to protect my peace so I don’t regret anything in the long run. I just need everyone’s prayers. I want to become a mother. The gynecologist said I am too young to do IVF at 29, especially when there’s nothing wrong with both of us. I sincerely appreciate everyone, and I pray God will bless and ease our pains. Thank you.
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