I am a 28-year-old Igbo girl dating an Edo man in his early 40s. He’s never been married but has a child. When we started dating, he lied about not having a child, but I later found out about it and accepted it. We are in a long-distance relationship, but we both reside in Nigeria. Whenever I visit him, I stay for 3–4 days. I have never stayed at his place for a week or more. I’ve checked everywhere at his place to see if there’s a woman in his life, but I didn’t see anything. I’ve met his friends, but I’ve never met any of his family.
According to him, he told his mum and sister about me, but they don’t want me because I’m Igbo. He wants me to get pregnant first before we marry. According to him, they won’t have any option but to accept me. I am scared he might leave me or just want me to be a baby mama. I’m so confused. How can a man in his 40s not want to settle down because his mum and sister said no to the girl he wants? I mean, they’re supposed to be happy that their son is finally getting married. Please, guys, what do I do?
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