I have been dating this guy for 5 years now. Last 2 years he cheated on me and made me go through hell while at it, projecting his insecurities onto me. I cried like a baby and begged him. He apologized and I took him back because along the line he broke up with me, and I decided to move on with my life. So fast forward to this year, we came back and I cheated back. It was not intentional though because I was high on alcohol and he found out and decided to end things with me. I begged and begged him, but he refused. Sometimes I’d go visit him and we’d have mad sex, but he’d still say we’re not dating. I got pregnant, and he took responsibility for it, but he doesn’t act like he used to before.
He gives me money if I ask, but he hardly checks up on me and the baby. Honestly, I’m tired of his nonchalant attitude. He’d tell me texting other guys is cheating, but he’d be texting his. Mind you, he got his ex’s number when he found out I cheated on him. He’d tell me he loves me and he’ll always be there for me, but the trust is not there anymore. He doesn’t want me to go, but he doesn’t want me either. I am tired of this emotional torture. I stood by him all these years, even when we started dating, I would give him money and I didn’t ask for a dime from him. That was how much I loved him. This year he said he cheated just to know if I’d cheat back so I did. What do we call this? Guys please.
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