Please, how do I tell this man to use deodorant or perfume in a good way? I started dating this man in December last year, but we started seeing each other this year in February. This guy doesn’t use cream, bath with soap, or use deodorant. So, I went to see him last month, and I started perceiving some fishy smells all over his body. Then I asked him politely, “Babe, what kind of spray do you use?” He said, “Spray kee? I don’t use any of those things. I don’t like them.” I shouted “Jesus” in my head. Please, guys, should I buy him some nice fragrance or mind my business? Secondly, this same guy is 41, and I’m 27, but he still stays with his mom and siblings. This guy has houses outside Lagos but decided to give them out.
Now he is building another one, and he said he still wants to put them on rent while he stays with his mom. Abeg, my people, he takes me to a hotel because he says his mom must not know he is seeing someone. I asked him, “Are you a mummy’s boy?” because I don’t understand why you are hiding your relationship from your mom at this age. Someone that can go 45 minutes nonstop in bed. Any little argument, he starts saying he is not my mate, that I should mind the way I talk or react to him, only because I told him to work on his anger, that he is too temperamental. Please, I need your advice.
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