I’m 26 years old, and I am a single mother of one. I met a guy last year, and we have been dating for close to 10 months now. This guy has never given me one kobo ever since we’ve been dating. Whenever I asked him for money, he wouldn’t say anything about it. I’m not saying I want to be a liability to him, at least, I have a business I am doing, and I’m seeing my “Toro Kobo,” which I am using to take care of my child. But at least, he should support them in the little way that he can. Mind you, at first, everything was going smoothly – communication and attention without money. So last year, he told me about his plan to travel out of the country, and he said we should go together, that I should give birth there so that the child can have citizenship, and I agreed. One day, when I was very broke, I called this guy and asked him to send me money, but he didn’t send me anything. It was that very day he was doing a giveaway on IG Live, and I was very angry.
So I called him, and when we met, I asked him why he never responded when I asked him for money. He said it was because of what his ex had done to him. His ex was a single mother too, and he said he really cared for her, spent a lot of money on her, and even sent her to the UK. However, they planned that when she arrived, they would get engaged. To his surprise, when she arrived, she went back to her baby daddy. He said that’s the reason why he hasn’t been giving me money because he’s scared that what happened to him the first time might repeat itself. He promised to change, but since then, I haven’t seen any changes. Besides, lately, he’s been acting somehow, keeping my messages unread for days, and he keeps saying he’s busy. So my question is, should I still follow him out of the country because we’ve started the processing already, or should I stay back? I don’t want to encounter any issues in my life again.
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