My heart is broken. It’s like my whole world is shattered. My relationship of 1 year and 6 months ended. I met this guy in the same compound I lived. Though at first I didn’t want to do the relationship, this guy assured me that the relationship will end well and with no time he will move out of the compound and get a new apartment for us. Three months into the relationship I got pregnant. This guy convinced me to get rid of the pregnancy all because he wasn’t ready for that and we just met, we haven’t gotten to know each other better. But I refused, that I can’t kill my baby. We later concluded to keep the baby and started looking for an apartment. But unfortunately, I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks and lost the pregnancy. I was pained but I accepted my fate. And this guy never stopped being the best thing that happened to me. He cared for me, supported me in his little way, always came through for me, and I believed I had found my man and promised never to let him go. Not until one day I decided to check his phone and to my surprise, I saw that this guy had been cheating on me with his ex-girlfriend. Whenever I went to work, his ex-girlfriend would come around. I saw the videos of them together on his phone. I confronted him and he begged, said it won’t repeat itself again, that it’s the girl forcing herself on him. Okay, I forgave him and let go of the issue. After some months again, which was February after my birthday, I decided to check his phone again and went through his WhatsApp. That’s how I found out this guy had someone else, telling her how much he loves the girl and how close the girl is to his heart. I confronted him again and he said the girl is nobody, but deep down I knew there was something about the girl.
This guy made it up to me again, begged me, and promised never to hurt me again. So on Saturday, I wasn’t feeling fine and had to go back home from work, but I didn’t inform him that I was coming. So me getting home, after resting, I decided to check him in his room. To my greatest surprise, I saw that girl. In my mind I was like, okay, the day is finally here, I will know who this girl is today. My rants family, in the presence of this girl, my so-called boyfriend denied me.
When I asked him, “Abdulmumeen, who is this lady?” he replied, “She is my girlfriend.” I asked again, “Who am I to you?” He said, “You are my friend and she is my girlfriend.” Ahhh, thatvmoment I felt like entering the ground and my whole body system turned to weakness, but I managed myself and left them and to cry my eyes out in my room. I called my friend and my friends started to console me. Immediately, I deleted his number. He started using a private number to call me and ask for my forgiveness — that his intentions are pure to me, just that he chose the girl over me because they are from the same tribe: Kogi State, Igala. I have blocked him everywhere and told him never to reach out to me again in his entire life. I told him I will never forgive him. My Rantz family, in everything you do, please, it’s very important to never trust a man. I was broken and to think I was very loyal to him and had nobody else but him. Abdulmumeen, wherever you are, my creator will judge you. You will never find happiness.
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