My people, y’all should please help me out. I’ve been dating my man for two years now, and things have been cool until recently. He tried communicating with me that he doesn’t really enjoy having sex with me, which actually pierced my heart, the reason being that I have a wide vag!na. He said he’s telling me because he doesn’t want to cheat on me and wants me to work on myself. He actually felt bad about telling me stuff like that because he didn’t want to hurt me. If at all I’m wide today, it’s due to childbirth, but I didn’t give birth to him. He knows everything about my past. Ever since then, I’ve been feeling very insecure, and I even avoid having sex with him, which I don’t know if it’s right. As of yesterday, I had access to his phone, and what I saw wasn’t funny at all.
He’s been cheating with different girls, and he’s also in a relationship with some of them. I don’t know if it’s due to what he said that he’s cheating or if it’s just in his nature. Mind you, I do ask him severally to always communicate his feelings to me if there’s anything I’m doing wrong so I’ll know what to do. The fact he’s been cheating since last year is a shock to me because I trusted him more than anyone in this life, and I never believed he’d do such a thing to me. Am I the problem or what? And please advise me on what to do because I feel so lost and confused right now. I don’t even know the next step to take.
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