I’m not writing this from the place of hurt but disappointment. I lent someone N200k, someone I dated for a year and few months. I’m not going to lie, the money is not what I’m really concerned about but the fact that this dude called me stupid and said I should do my worst! Mehnn, I felt like a piece of shit. I lent him this money six months ago, and not until April, I never asked—only twice. Then May, I became serious about it ‘cause I want to get my money and block him off. He was giving time without paying me. Late last month (May), I really expressed my anger by asking for my money. Told him I was going to do the unthinkable if he doesn’t pay me my money and all of that. He told me to do my worst and called me a fool. I became dumbfounded. I don’t even know how to react. I planned to report him to few people so they can plead with him to refund, but he called me a fool!
This person and I barely communicate. You know the relationships where you just stop talking. All I want is my money, but I was called a fool. Several times I help this guy whenever he needs food or data. Even when I don’t have, I will borrow so he could be okay. I felt totally used. I felt like the most useless person on the surface of earth. I’m so angry, God! Spiritually, I can decide to ruin his life more. No matter how hard he works in life, he will never meet up with his peers. But it’s not worth it because of N200k. There is no way I’m jeopardizing my peace for that trash. I’ve decided to let go of the money. Blocked him everywhere already. E don go be that but except there is no God.
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