During December, I didn’t see my period. I was really scared, knowing fully well that I’d been having unprotected sex with my bf, who is now my ex. We had a little argument on the 13th of December, and he didn’t call me or text me. I texted him, but he asked me never to text him again. He blocked me on WhatsApp immediately. On the 15th of December 2023, I messaged him and told him I didn’t see my period. I messaged him on his Instagram and told him I missed my period. He asked me to go for a checkup and send the result to him. That evening, I dressed up and went to the hospital to run a test. My blood sample was taken, and the result was out.
It was positive. I sent him the result. He told me he wasn’t responsible and he wasn’t interested in me or the pregnancy. He said he told me before that he didn’t want to have anything to do with me. That night I couldn’t sleep, I had to tell my elder sister what was going on and show her the test result and our conversation. My sister encouraged me to put myself together. I was so restless. He blocked me on everything. I tried to reach him every time just so we could talk things out, but immediately he got my message and knew it was me, he blocked me. On the 17th, I went for an ultrasound, but there was nothing in my stomach.
The lab guy said I wasn’t pregnant, though he wasn’t sure, he asked me to come back for another two weeks to run another test. I went back to the hospital where I did my first blood pregnancy test, and the result came out negative. I was very mad but at the same time happy because he really showed me he didn’t love or care. Before a week, my period started. I was so happy. I haven’t told him that I’ve seen my period yet. He blocked me on everything. I don’t even see why I should tell him because he said he doesn’t want me or the baby. And he broke up with me. So I’m slowly moving on with my life. It hurts so bad, but I’m getting better daily. Please, no rude comments. I’m already heartbroken. Thanks.
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