So, I met this guy through a friend of mine who stays in the U.S. I stay in Lagos, and he does too, and during the time I met him, I was going through a financial crisis. Everything was totally messed up for me, and after meeting up with him thrice, I got to open up to him. He helped me a lot financially and mentally. He also didn’t hide the fact that he likes me, but we didn’t date. He’s always spoiling me with gifts randomly, cheers me up, and always wants to be around me. He made me feel sane and protected. During the few months of knowing him, he helped me clear my debts, I mean all of it (N4.8m), and assisted me in starting my business.
But now it seems like he’s ghosting me. I ignored it at first, thinking maybe he would come back to his senses, but the attitude continues. And before y’all come for me, I didn’t do anything wrong. He just stopped reaching out. A week passed without contact from both our ends, so I decided to reach out to him, but it didn’t feel the same. When I chat, he takes hours to reply, which is very much unlike him. Then his replies are short and kind of mean. Mind you, this is someone who was all over me before. I don’t know, maybe it’s because we have had sex or something.
It’s 2 months and 5 days now, and nothing from him. I’m pained because I really, really liked him, and sometimes I feel guilty about the way our relationship turned sour, mostly because he helped me when I had no one. Please, what do you guys think? Should I call him or just let him be? Or should I complain to my friend abroad about his behavior? But the thing is, we didn’t even date, so I’m probably overreacting. Help!
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