In anything you do in life, never be with someone who manipulates and gaslights. So, there’s this guy I’ve been in an FWB situation with since 2023. At first, he was cooperative, but suddenly, he started putting me in a girlfriend position. He would question why I didn’t reply fast, asking if I was calling my boyfriend, or he’d say things like, “So you’re in love with someone else?” At some point, I got confused—wasn’t this supposed to be just FWB? Whenever I went to see him, he would give me N50K while I was leaving, sometimes even N80K for just one night. But he has a girlfriend—I always see her things in his room, like her hair or panties in the bathroom. Then, out of nowhere, he changed. He stopped giving me money and started saying things like, “What have you ever done for me?” and always telling me, “You always ask for things before coming over.” I went to his place twice last month, and he gave me nothing, yet he still wanted me to come over again.
I told him he must send me money before I leave my house, and he got upset, saying it doesn’t make sense to ask for money every time. I reminded him that we are in an FWB situation, yet he keeps putting me in an understanding girlfriend position. Now, he’s trying to manipulate me, saying I never ask about his needs, that I always ask for money, and that it’s not good. But he never complained about this before. Now, he’s saying he loves me so much and wants me to change, telling me to be a sweet girl. I don’t understand—is he trying to play me, or is he really in love? I doubt it, ’cause it’s only when I want to come over that he gives the most attention. So that’s not love. But what he doesn’t know is that I’m aware he has a girlfriend, and I never fought him over it because I signed up for FWB from the beginning.
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