I am 22, and I will be 23 this year. I’m in a four-year relationship. I love him so much, and he loves me too. He treats me with care and love, shows me off, and has never beaten me or uttered any abusive words toward me. He encourages my business and academics, and we both graduated. This made me love him even more. We have been through so much together, and he has been a very supportive partner. I have never cheated on him. But in 2022, he cheated on me. I cried so much, but I forgave him. He blocked the girl, but fast forward to March 2025, I caught him cheating again. I have never been this hurt. Today makes it the fifth day since I found out, and I have been crying every day. I broke up with him, but he came back begging, saying he wants me and can’t live without me.
He has been begging every day. I’m so hurt. My eyes ache from crying. But I love him, and I can’t imagine myself with another man. I love him deeply. A part of me wants to forgive him, but another part doesn’t because the last time I forgave him, he cheated again. He’s begging for one last chance and swears he won’t do it again. But I don’t know if I should believe him. I don’t know what to do. Please advise me like a friend or sister. If I break up, will I find another man who will love me the way he does but won’t cheat? I don’t cheat, so I don’t think I deserve a cheating partner. I don’t have friends, and I’m scared of being alone.
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