I wanna ask a question because I’m not used to this pattern. This might be lengthy, but hear me out. I know they say when a guy sees a woman he likes, he doesn’t really waste time to make her his own. So, a guy replied to my Insta story and said, I quote, “This could be us, but we don’t know each other.” Honestly, I wasn’t even interested in him, but he kept texting me, reminding me that he’d want to make me his girlfriend. From our conversations, he seems intentional about me. At the time we were texting, he was in Awka, although he lives in Abuja.
He came to Awka for his NYSC clearance, and I’m in Enugu. From Awka, he came to Enugu to see me, and guys, this guy looked even better than his photos. He still talked about the relationship thing and said he meant it. We didn’t have sex, although we did some smooching. He has asked me out, and I’m yet to give my reply. Guys, all this happened in a space of two weeks, so I’m confused. Is it possible that he’s being truthful, or is he just doing this for the knacks? That would be so lame. I’m pretty and endowed, so it’s still possible. I’ve asked him many times what his intentions are.
Guys, I even faked that I didn’t want anything serious and just wanted a fling. He said he’s cool with my choice, even though he’d want more than just a fling. He kept repeating that he wants a relationship. Is he being intentional, or is he trying to play me? He wasn’t even pissed when I told him that we ain’t gonna get laid when we meet. You guys, I like this guy, but I’m skeptical because I feel the whole thing is happening too fast. Besides, it’s gonna be a long-distance relationship if I accept, and he’s willing to work with it. He was like, “As long as we’re both in Nigeria, it’s very possible.
We’d just have to make sacrifices to make it work, and I don’t mind footing the transportation bills.” I mean, I don’t mind doing long distance too; after all, my last relationship was also long distance. But looking at this from the bright side, this might be good because, usually, my talking stages last for months before they ask me out, and most times, it doesn’t even work or lead to a relationship—just failed talking stages. This feels so different to me, and I just want to be sure that I’m not trying to get played here because I’m a lover girl, and I’d be so heartbroken if this goes south. Guys, I want to give this relationship my all. 😩
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