Please, I need your honest advice. I’m in a situation, and I honestly don’t know how to come out of it. I’m 26 years old and still a virgin. I got into a relationship with a guy, and from the start, I told him I didn’t want sex, just to get to know him better before getting intimate. A month into the relationship, I found out he was cheating and calling other girls just for sex. I wanted to give him sex to see if he would change, but my friends discouraged me. I just assumed he wasn’t serious with me. To my surprise, nine months into our relationship, he proposed in front of his friends. I couldn’t embarrass him, so I accepted. But we had never discussed marriage, done any tests, or anything that would make me think he would propose. I cried that night because I don’t want to marry this man. He acts nice and supports me, but behind my back, he brings other women to the house and lies about his whereabouts. Six weeks after the engagement, he had already been with more than seven women.
I know he might be a good dad, but I wouldn’t be fulfilled as a wife. My career and future aren’t safe in his hands. I know he won’t stop lying and cheating. I don’t want to live in a mansion with a car but feel miserable inside. Please, how can I leave this relationship amicably? I know some people will say men are prone to cheat, but this isn’t working for me. I need your honest advice. Thank you.
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