I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years now, and I really do not know if I am being used by him or not. He doesn’t call or text directly or through WhatsApp, and each time I call, he finds it difficult to pick up or call back. When he finally picks, he would say I’m always calling randomly. He doesn’t check up on me. Each time I try to talk to him about it, he says he’s busy and can’t give me all the needed attention I want. At times, I would stay for days not talking to him, hoping he would call or text, but he doesn’t, and I still ended up doing the calling. He doesn’t send me money unless I ask, and each time he sends me money, he somehow collects it back, more than the amount he sent. Am I too soft-hearted? I don’t even ask him for money anymore because he ends up telling me he doesn’t have it and asks me to send him money, which I would. Am I not worth being cared for like I do for him?
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