I have noticed that whenever I date someone financially stable, they bring lots of problems and toxicity into my life, making me unhappy. But when I meet someone who isn’t financially well-off, the relationship is peaceful and without issues. Why is this? Is something wrong with me? I am the firstborn in my family. My father is wealthy, well-known, and highly respected, so I’m expected to bring home someone who’s also financially stable. I don’t rely on others for much, and I can’t even remember the last time I asked my dad for assistance.
I’m currently dating a guy, and we’ve been together for seven months. He’s loving, respectful, and caring, even though he doesn’t have much. He’s managed to pay for my hair, buy me a rechargeable fan, and does little things without me asking. He says he wants to marry me next year, but I don’t think he can afford any type of wedding besides a simple one, which I don’t want. I’ve been brainstorming ideas for a business he could start to bring in more income.
He’s a graphics designer, but his earnings are low. He also works for his uncle, who doesn’t pay him well, and when he tried to leave, his uncle became emotional and asked him to stay. Please, ladies, let’s talk. Am I wrong for hoping and praying for God to bless him? I’ve heard that some men are humble only when they don’t have money. Is this the case?
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