I met a guy around 2020, he asked me out, though he told me he had a girlfriend, so basically, he was asking me to be his side chick, and I accepted him because I didn’t want something serious with him. So since then, we’ve been together, though we’ve broken up several times, but somehow, somehow, we always get back. Fast forward to earlier last year, we had issues and we broke up again. Then a month later, we started talking again, and I found out that he had broken up with his babe. And I also confirmed from a very valid source that it was true. So we started seeing each other until we had issues again which led to him asking me if we were dating. So I just ignored him and stopped talking to him, blocked him from all social media and anywhere he could reach me.
Early this month, he called me with a strange number, begging for us to meet. After enough pleading, I granted his request. Since then, we’ve been seeing each other. He has really been acting like a real boyfriend compared to how he normally acts when he had a girlfriend. He calls now, always texts me, and he always wants me around him. The issue now is that I asked him if we are dating, and he said let’s go with the flow. I’m quite confused because how can you treat me like your babe and yet you don’t want a relationship? And the worst thing is that he knows I’m in love with him. So, Rantandtalkz family, what can I do in this situation?