If there’s anything, DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS. There’s always more out there. No matter how it is, there’s better out there. Do not settle. My ex and I dated for almost three years, and he never mentioned marriage. The day I met his mother (I was at his house, and his mother came by), he didn’t even introduce me to her, and she didn’t ask who I was either. I asked him if his mum knew me, and he said he didn’t want to introduce me because I’d be the fourth girl, and he didn’t have the strength to explain if anything happened. He told me countless times that his siblings were disturbing him to marry, but one thing he wanted to do was to japa. He planned to go far away from them so he could take his time and marry whenever he wanted.
He was always sad for no reason. I work, so I sent him money and bought him stuff. But he was always the “I wanted to” type. He never actually did anything. I took a lot of sh!t with the hope that he’d get better because I loved him with every fiber of my being. My now husband-to-be introduced me to his family within two months of dating. He talke about marriage even before I said yes to dating him. Whatever he plans, he puts me first. I couldn’t believe it’s the same me begging a man to love me the way I want to be loved someone is loving effortlessly. He’s just so sweet and the best thing ever. An intentional man.
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