Rantandtalkz family, I’m here for clarification because of my relationship. I have been in this relationship for over two years now. I’m a guy who just finished my HND and is preparing for NYSC. I have this girl; right from day one she’s been my life. She’s not materialistic, down to earth, and she’s beautiful, even the most beautiful girl in our whole school then. When we started dating, she cheated on me with her ex five days after we started dating. She had a kid for her ex, but the kid died the month I met her. I had to forgive her since I believed it was just because of their relationship and our relationship was still fresh. Though I cried because I was heartbroken, I got over it because I loved her truly. We got along and forgot about what happened. I haven’t once used that incident to bully or taunt her. This girl is the best thing that ever happened to me. When I was down, I sold her phone just for us to survive. She was without a phone for months before I got her another phone.
She didn’t get angry, and she understands. She will borrow me money, N50k, N200k from her family members because they know me. Right now, I still owe her about N400k, which she never even talked about, but deep inside me, I know I must refund it. Talk about anything, she will pray for me, show me love, she doesn’t get attracted by anything. I bought her first wig, N100k, she used it just twice because she’s not the flashy type. She’s literally my world. Every moment I sleep, I dream about her. But she has this habit of keeping her phone from me. She said she likes her privacy. I told her she could know my password while I knew her password also. A lot of times we had issues about it, and her mom and sister would intervene. If she tells me the password today, the next day she changes it, and that’s the only issue we ever have. Recently, I see she’s been moody, and the love is not there. I’m an overthinker, and one thing about us is we think ahead.
They may say we are crazy, but we know the truth. A few days ago, I called her, she told me she was home. I texted her on WhatsApp, she told me she wanted to sleep by 7:30, which looks odd. But for love’s sake, I waved that away. I texted her at midnight, but she read my messages and didn’t reply. I called her till morning, the same thing. To cut it short, she said she’s scared because they’ve been giving me soap at church that I might try to use her or that soap might include stuff that might affect us. But I always tell her it’s church, it’s normal in celestial. She said since I wasn’t trying to change, she’s been trying to leave me. That’s why she had to hang around with this guy, and they had sex once. This girl has done a lot for me, she’s my life. Can I still continue with her?
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