Hi guys, I’m 21, and recently I’ve been very bothered if I actually have a clitoris. I’ve checked and checked. I don’t think I was circumc!$ed because it looks normal and everything is intact. It’s just that below the clitoral hood where the clit is supposed to be, it’s nothing there. It’s just empty, like nothing at all. Now thinking back, I’m starting to think maybe that’s the reason I didn’t enjoy sex the first time I tried. I have a boyfriend of 2 years, and I’ve only been sexually active with him. Being deflowered was a total pain, and even after that, I still couldn’t find pleasure for the first couple of times. I get aroused and turned on during f0replay and all, but I can say penetration doesn’t really come with the thrill as people always say. Most times, I just like the pressure from it and not the actual thrusting. What do I do? I can’t talk to my mom about it.
Even when I told my sister, she only thinks it’s one of my episodes because I’m not one to actually overreact about things concerning health. All other parts of my body give me pleasure during the deed; like my breasts, neck, and all. I get wet and all and enjoy sex sometimes, but most times I don’t even get horny or anything. I think my lib!do is low too. It’s just the penetration doesn’t give me pleasure as it should. Sometimes I even feel like something is trying to come out like pee during sex, and in the end, nothing comes forth. I’ve never even had an orgasm, not to even talk of squirting and all. I think all this points to my clit. I know what it is; I’ve searched with my hands holding a mirror, but it’s just not there!! There’s just a small tiny hope where the clit is supposed to be. I’m fucking losing my mind, please help!
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