My boyfriend is a photographer, his editing apps got expired, and he couldn’t pay for them with his Nigeria card. Also, he needed to boost these pictures. Then, he reached out to me to give him my card details for him to use and pay for it. Note: I live in the UK. I told him I couldn’t, not because I didn’t want to, but because this account is where my life savings are (school money and work money). I can’t just give out my details. I explained these things to him. To think that I asked him to give me his IG logins, let me do it for him rather, he bluntly refused. As in, he refused, giving me unnecessary reasons why he wouldn’t. One reason he stated was that he didn’t want me to ‘go and see some chats that I wouldn’t like’. After that day, we didn’t talk about it again till yesterday (that’s like 3 weeks after).
We were speaking on the phone, and he told me that his roommate helped him to do it, and I was happy. I even asked him to thank him for me. All of a sudden, he switched automatically, more like giving an attitude. I asked him, and he told me that he just remembered when he asked for my details and I refused, that the whole thing pissed him off. I apologized and told him that I had reasons. He kept asking for what reasons, and I pleaded with him to forget it since he had already paid for the stuff. That was how he stopped texting me. I kept texting and apologizing, but he ignored me. Then today, I sent him more than 30 messages, but all he does is read and ignore. I do things he asks me to do, just this one I said No, he chose to tag me as a bad person. Did I do wrong?
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