I’m 24 years old, and I’ve known this certain man since I was 20. He’s 30 now, so 6 years. We had a brief talking stage and went out a couple of times. He lives in the US and used to travel bi-monthly to come see me. Our entire getting to know each other lasted like 6 months-ish. But I knew I could never date him because I’m telling you guys, take your most t0xic boyfriend and multiply that toxicity by 7, and it will still not reach this man’s own. We would have an argument 2-3 times EVERY WEEK. I mean heated ones. In fact, the only reason I let whatever thing it was reach the length of time it reached was because he used to give me money. Now, since we stopped talking 3 years ago, we don’t talk often. But has he stopped being t0xic? No. This man will never post on his status. Ever. But once we start talking frequently, he’ll be doing back-to-back posting. Sometimes it’s a direct sub, other times it’s things I cannot understand how they’re related to me, but I still know it’s me because it cannot be a coincidence.
I don’t know what I’ve done to him. This man will come out of the woods, and small thing he’ll call me a na$ty mean b!tch, say that his new babe gives him so much peace and is so nice to him, he doesn’t know what he ever saw in me, then go and upload “b!tches ain’t sh!t”. After 3 years! He will also randomly send me money. So, will I block him? Also no. But trust that I give it back to him because my current boyfriend gives me so much peace and our relationship is sweet, but being t0xic back to a man is so nice too. And he randomly sends me N300k upwards. Lol. No, we don’t exchange any conversations that, even if my boyfriend sees, will upset him. The only thing is he may be shocked at the words I can type since I’m very demure with him. Please, does anyone have this type of experience with a man?
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