I just want to share my story so men can learn one or two. So I started dating this girl in Ireland, I was her first sexual partner. Things were beautiful between us and she saw me as her future husband. Fast forward, I moved to Canada and we started a distance relationship. We continued communicating every day but as a guy, I dated other ladies but avoided commitment until I met this amazing lady here in Canada. I thought I could play games with her too but she knew her worth and we started a serious relationship too. I found myself loving and dating two women, one here with me in Canada and the other still in Ireland. The distant girlfriend didn’t want to leave me, same as my babe here. I found myself loving both of them. They are similar in character and are both amazing ladies. I didn’t want to hurt anyone so I kept dating both. I knew I had to choose someone and let the other person go but I didn’t know how. I found myself being selfish and wanting both of them to myself. Now, the surprising thing is they both found out about each other courtesy of the one here. I was destabilized, I almost ran mad.
Now, the one I met in Ireland keeps saying she met me first and deserves to be with me but the one here says we are both in the same country and it’s better I end things with the other one so she can move on with someone else in Ireland. I know I messed up big time. I do not want to hurt anyone, please advise me on what to do. They have both been there for me. Do I beg the one in Ireland, apologize to her for everything and beg her to please move on with someone else while I focus on my girl here with me in Canada? Will the distant girlfriend ever forgive me? How can I prove my love and trust to my girl here in Canada so she can know such would never happen again and I won’t hurt her that way again? Everyone deserves to be loved correctly with no games involved, I didn’t plan this. I thought I could break up with my distant girl with ease but she is so glued to me because I’m her first. How can I help her move on so I can focus on my girl here in Canada? Please be kind with your advice. I would be in the comments. Thank you.
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