Omo!! Sometimes it’s good to stalk. I feel used and stupid right now. He made me do what I promised myself I’d never do: date a married man. When we started talking, I asked him if he was married, and he said no, but he had a son. I was uncomfortable at first, but I agreed because I loved him, and I didn’t mind. Fast forward to a few months back. I don’t know how, but I started stalking his page and came across his baby mama’s page, which had his name and surname. I confronted him about it, asking why he didn’t tell me he was married and why a woman he’s not married to was answering his name. He denied everything, saying I was doubting his integrity, that his name had never been on any marriage certificate, and he didn’t know she was using his name.
Foolish me, I let it slide, thinking I was wrong because I didn’t have evidence. This man is manipulative, toxic, and a control freak. I wonder why it took me so long to realize it. I finally did after we had a slight misunderstanding. Then, he stopped picking my calls and blocked me. I guess I was too blinded or just being too stoopid. We always met at a hotel. I don’t know his house, never been to his office, and only met one of his friends (who was with a lady and also married). In five months of dating, I met nobody else from his life. When I asked him about it, he said it was because of his son and that he stays with his mum. This man is in his late 30s! He said he’d only bring me to his house if I was sure I wanted to marry him, blah blah blah. After he left me, I begged and begged to no avail. I was loyal to a married man, and he left me.
That’s when I started stalking again. I don’t even know how I got there, but lo and behold, I saw wedding pictures and traditional marriage pictures. He was even celebrating their one-year wedding anniversary. I almost lost my mind. Since he blocked me, I’ve been thinking of sending all the evidence to him with another number to show him I was right all along, but there’s no need. The deed has been done. I feel so stoopid and pained because I wasn’t the one who left; he was. Married men, stay with your wives. Must you cheat? Even if you must, don’t deny your wife. I feel pity for the poor lady, and I’m so sorry. Mr. S, God will punish you for me because I did you no wrong but loved you.
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