So I met this divorced man in 2022. He is a rich man. When we met, he was treating me right. He made a statement jokingly one day that I’d bring him more money. He also said he isn’t leaving me anytime soon. On the first day we were meant to see, I tried booking a ride; all rides were unavailable. I finally got one, but it stopped along the road. I felt like something was off, so I went back home and told him I wouldn’t be able to make it, that I feel like God doesn’t want us to see each other. It felt suspicious. He was sad, but he said he doesn’t blame me—it’s the insecurity in the country. After a few days, we resumed talking. He kept acting nice till October when we finally had s£x. We also did in November. Then I missed my period for months. I thought he did something to me spiritually, but I went to a hospital. I found out it was hormonal imbalance. I got medications and saw my period that same November.
My elder sister had a dream where someone tried to collect my destiny. He left the country that year, then a few months later, she dreamt that a man used me for rituals and I was bleeding. He wasn’t in the country then, and we only saw in January. Now, fast forward to 2024, he came back to the country. We are back together, and everything is going well. I feel good, like all is well with me. My business is going very well too, and I don’t feel like anything is wrong with me spiritually, but those two dreams my sister had won’t stop making me scared of him. Plus, I heard a lot of rich Igbo men are ritualists. I also forgot to add that he told me he is in a men’s club and they paid 10 million naira each to join. Now my question is, do I keep being with him? He seems nice. Do I cut him off before he does something to me, or are the dreams my sister had about me actually someone else’s plan for me?
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