I have been dating this guy for about a year, and we are so in love, like those ideal couples. Then I got admission to study abroad while he was in search for a job. We agreed upon him finding a job and becoming stable while I studied. Then my father got seriously ill for about six months, which made me lose the opportunity as he is my sponsor. Things started going well; he is recovering, but I got pressured to bring in my suitor since I couldn’t get admitted. I talked to my boyfriend, and according to him, he isn’t ready for marriage. Although he is currently working with some organization, he said the pay isn’t much. So either I wait for him or find someone because he can’t go into marriage without a stable job, while I cannot stall time as I was given an option to bring in someone, or I would be matched to a relative.
Before that, I was approached by someone whom I didn’t give consent to as I have a boyfriend, and he is ready for marriage. In the process of getting to know each other, we came to find out they are somewhat related—the first boyfriend and the second. So I decided to end the triangle relationship with both of them, which I did. But the first boyfriend didn’t budge; he’s still calling, but I friend-zoned him. Fast forward: I didn’t get married as of that time and was schooling, currently in my final year. We are in a situationship with the first boyfriend. We both want to reconcile; I initiate the topic uncountable times, but he will seem busy or make the convo look like a forced one or will answer my question with a question, directing it back at me as if he’s not involved in the matter. I’m confused and want to end this whatever it is.
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