In 2023, I met this guy that wasn’t my type at all, but he was caring and kind to me. He spoiled me with gifts even after I told him I wasn’t ready for another relationship because the last one traumatized me, and I noticed that most of my relationships don’t last and they don’t spend on me. I decided to consider him and give it a try. We started dating; he moved me out from where I was staying and got me another place. Six months after, I found out I was pregnant. He asked me to keep it, that he really wanted a child, but I said no. After much consideration, I decided to keep it. While I was pregnant, things were really rough for us. I started getting frustrated and angry; we argued a lot. After I gave birth, things started getting better, but I was too toxic.
I wasn’t even sure if I loved him or not. After some time, I noticed that he started cheating on me. When I confirmed that he was cheating, I used the money he kept in my account to get a house. He begged me not to go, that he would change, but I had already paid for the house, so I had no choice but to move. We both agreed that we would stay apart for one year to figure out what we really wanted. But the problem now is that I’m already used to him. If he doesn’t pick my call, I start getting frustrated, and I noticed that he’s still going out with that same girl that caused issues between us. The girl is always posting whenever they’re together, and mind you, I’m way more good-looking than her. Right now, he told me he needs a break, but he’s still sending me money and taking good care of me.
He told me we’re cool, but I noticed he changed in the way he looks at me and all. We had an argument today, and we were both crying. He was telling me to stop watching her story, that he would change, that I caused all this because I wasn’t giving him peace. So, I’m in the comment section—please advise me. Is it over, or is it worth fighting for? Mind you, he is a good man, and I think I love him now because he knows I didn’t love him before, and he knows it was because those I loved didn’t love me back that I settled for him. So, what do you guys think? Should I still be there, or is it time to forget about him?
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