I have been with a girl I’ve dated for a long time—more than five years. She’s very good, especially compared to what we have outside these days. But I have one major issue with her: her lying habit. She lies to the point that she will never admit she’s lying, even if it’s obvious, until you come up with evidence. This has been happening over the years, and I always encourage her to open up to me no matter how bad a situation is. I prefer truth over lies, no matter how hurtful they may turn out. I am someone with huge trust issues because of my experiences in life. These lies range from communication with other boys to some of her activities. I love her nonetheless—or maybe loved her. Over the course of our relationship, I’ve cheated multiple times, mainly due to the uncertainty of my stance with her (not an excuse),
but I’ve always been doubtful about us due to her lying habit. Over the years, I met two other girls I like so much as well. Girl 2: She is very independent, loving, caring, and very honest. I trust her a lot, but we are not s£xually compatible. I am someone with enough experience, and I don’t want to marry someone I’m not s£xually compatible with because I do not plan to cheat when married. We dated briefly when I broke up with my first girlfriend (we broke up because she lied about something). But after I reconciled with her, I had to break up with this second one because I couldn’t lead her on (she’s a very good person and doesn’t deserve that). We occasionally kept in touch thereafter. She has told me a lot of times that she wants me back, but I decline. Girl 3: I met her two years ago. We started as friends but began having s£x after a year of knowing each other.
Although I asked her a couple of times before we became s£xually active, she turned me down. I later found out she had a boyfriend. I was shocked because that meant she was cheating with me on her boyfriend. Her excuse was they always had issues, she liked me, but I didn’t show interest in dating—just s£x. Over the years, we got closer until I started having feelings for her. I later found out she got involved with another guy when I didn’t show interest in dating her. Her excuse was I didn’t show interest in her. She wanted a defined relationship, but I wasn’t interested—until now. She broke things off with her first guy and allegedly broke things off with the other dude. She’s been showing a lot of interest and seriousness with me, but I’m not convinced she won’t flip someday and cheat because I don’t trust her.
But I love her. Least I forget to add: I am very much s£xually compatible with this one. She’s a good person—very kind, domestic, and hardworking too, like the second girl, though maybe not as independent. My doubt lies in her tendency to cheat. Not that anyone can’t cheat. So, one lies, the second I’m not s£xually compatible with, and the third has the tendency to cheat because she cheated on her ex with me. I am as confused as a duckling without its mother.
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