So I’m 24, and my ex is 28. He pursued me for close to a year before I accepted to date him in 2023. It was going smoothly because we agreed on no sex, but along the line, we did end up having sex since he gives good head. That’s how we started having sex frequently, but I noticed he only gave me money for hair (N10-N13k). Aside from that, I’d sometimes have to screenshot my account balance for him to send me the least N5k. I was grateful, but according to him, I was always treating him badly and didn’t respect him. He was always coming over to see me at home, and eventually, my sisters and neighbors noticed him.
I told him that coming to my place so frequently wasn’t ideal, but he didn’t agree with me and said I was complaining. There was even a time he didn’t give me money for a whole month and then asked me to come over for sex. I told him that he hadn’t given me any money recently, and now he was asking for sex. He got angry and said I was monetizing the relationship, that relationships should be about love, not money. We argued until we eventually had sex, and he gave me N2500 to buy shawarma, then sent N5k the next day for toiletries. That led to another disagreement. I ended up telling his friend about the situation.
Fast forward to this month, I reached out and apologized for everything, hoping we could reconcile, but he told me he was already seeing someone else and my apology was a bit late. I was speechless. He had moved on within a month, even though I thought we would get back together. I was so upset that I ended up insulting him, calling his dick small (which is actually like 3 inches). I told him that if his new girl wasn’t a virgin, she’d probably cheat because he can’t satisfy anyone with that. I didn’t cheat on him because he gives good head, but I was really hurt. If only we’d communicated, the issue could’ve been resolved.
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