I am a 30-year-old tech guy. I work remotely for an international company. I met this beautiful 25-year-old girl 6 months ago, and we started talking. This chic checks every box that can ever exist in my dictionary. She clicks so well with me (I am an introvert with terrible social anxiety). We have so many similar hobbies and perspectives toward life. I dated last 8 years ago, and since then, it’s been from one unsuccessful talking stage to another without finding any substantial attachment to anyone. I feel very alive, relaxed, happy, and passionate whenever we are together. She is hardworking, super intelligent, creative, decent, classy, beautiful, fun, kind, and many more to say but a few.
We kissed for the first time a few days ago, and I get very jumpy when I remember that kiss. The problem now is my last relationship 8 years ago ended because of distance. This babe is planning to return to Canada for her PhD degree. I don’t know if I should still continue the chase and officially ask her out. On the other hand, I am very scared of distance affecting what we have. I am already madly in love with her, and we aren’t even dating yet. I can’t imagine what my mental health would be if it goes south. P.S. I am in full support of her going for her PhD. I also have plans of moving abroad to Germany precisely. Do you think it is a wise idea to switch my work visa route to Canada where she will be studying?