I have a boyfriend whom I’ve been dating for more than a year now. He’s really kind-hearted and takes care of me in every way he can, but I’m not into him. I’ve actually never been into him. He says I don’t treat him nice and all, but I’m sincerely trying. I’ve been in other relationships, and it’s nothing compared to this. He doesn’t have the charisma and aura. He has people working for him but can’t control his workers or make that manly stand, and it drives me crazy. I ask myself if this is the kind of man I really want for myself. Is this the kind of father I want for my kids? He doesn’t understand me and neither do I. We always quarrel at the slightest of things that don’t even make sense.
I like to have diverse conversations and be spontaneous, but with him, all we talk about is “Have you eaten? What did you eat? Did you sleep fine?” or talk about people. I’ve spoken to him about it, and he said he will try. Truthfully, if he could, he would, but he just doesn’t know how to have conversations, and when I try to bring one up, he doesn’t know how to engage. On chats and physical, being with him is worse. If we’re not having sex, we’re on our separate phones, or I’m sleeping and he’s watching Facebook. I’ve tried to break up with him several times, but he’d always cry and beg me. I’m scared of h#rting him, but being with him is hurting me more, and I’m not feeling it at all.
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