In anything you do, end up with a kind partner. I met this guy when I was 20 and he’s 10 years older. He’s sweet and nice, but he’s a chronic cheat and a smoker. Anytime we have an issue, this guy will reach out to other ladies and start promising them heaven and earth. I come across this anytime I check his phone. He will apologize and I will forgive too. I got pregnant along the line and told him about it. He said to keep it. I also didn’t have the intention of aborting the pregnancy, so I introduced him to my mom, but my mom didn’t like this guy at first. We sha got married, not because we were ready but because I was pregnant. When my child was 3 months old, I started working and this guy was doing nothing, just sitting at home smoking and expecting me to come back home with money. Each time he asked me to borrow him money, I would write it down, but anytime I asked for the money, there would be a problem. He kept saying I was the one working and he wasn’t doing anything at the moment. This guy can’t carry his child for 3 minutes. It got to a stage that he started beating me, but I still had to endure because my mom never supported the relationship in the first place.
When it got so bad that everything I did irritated him, I had no choice but to go back to my parents’ house, further my education, and enroll my son in a school. Each time my son needs something and I reach out to this guy, he always comes up with excuses. Close to 2 years now, he doesn’t know what the child is eating or his well-being, but has the gut to call and start cursing and all that. I will be 25 this year and everything has not been easy. Life is so hard. I don’t regret having a child, but I regret meeting this guy. I hope everything falls in place soon.