Before I started dating my ex, he told me he was a single dad and he was not together with his baby’s mom, which I accepted. We are in a long-distance relationship. I love his son and accepted him as mine; he calls me mom and he likes talking to me when I’m talking to his dad on the phone. During the time we were dating, he told me how he hates her, he doesn’t want to have anything with her except his child; she is so irritating. Then later he posted her on his status with a love emoji, claiming she took his phone from their child and posted her picture. I was so sad and disappointed; my heart broke into pieces, but he explained it to me. I was almost done with the relationship with him without telling him. Later he told me that he was sick, and he called his child’s mom to come take care of him at night till the next morning.
I felt like a fool because I would be there; they would give me a wedding invitation card or expect a second child together. Omo, I blocked him everywhere, and thank God we have not had sex yet because it will be a wasted body count to me that I will regret heavily. A few months later I got a new boyfriend that is everything I had prayed for, no problem with him at all, and my ex has been chatting with me with different numbers. I’m tired of blocking, and I don’t want my boyfriend to find out and lose my boyfriend because of Linus. I miss his son so much; I wish he would dash me his son, and I can’t delete his picture from my phone. I pray God gives me a child of my own when I’m married. Be careful of single dads.
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