I’m a 25-year-old boy who has a girlfriend of two years. The reason for writing this is to ask for help with my sexual life. I get turned off easily while having sex. I mostly love submissive sex, either I’m submissive or my partner is submissive, but if my partner tries to be stubborn or does something that makes the sex look like I’m forcing it, then I’ll get turned off immediately. I can only get turned on again with her giving me head or me watching her play with herself, which she has been doing since we’ve been together. Now the problem is she’s complaining she can’t keep up with me getting turned off easily because she suddenly started wanting a forceful or rape-like sex, which I can’t do. She said that’s what I must do, which I honestly don’t know how to because I don’t get turned on by things like that. She’s suggesting I should take all these sexual drinks which I’ve never done in my life. So house, any advice on what I should do please?
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