Hello Rantz Fam. Okay, so I have been dating this girl for a while now, and in two weeks we should be celebrating five years together, but this year has been really dramatic for both of us, especially me. Last year, 2024, there was a time my babe came to visit, and at the time my phone was bad, so I needed to contact my sister’s husband because we had a business to run together. Mind you, my sister’s husband and I are really very close. I took my babe’s phone to try to reach him, but I noticed the messages weren’t proper; it was obvious the conversation had been deleted. By the way, my babe stays close to my sister’s house, so they are literally neighbors, which means my sister’s husband gets to see her every now and then. Back to trying to use her phone to contact him, I noticed the chats, and we had issues because of it. I just let it slide because I didn’t see anything alarming, and we settled that issue. But, as omo ogbon, I still had it at the back of my mind that I needed to know something. Fast forward to February this year, I began having doubts about my relationship. I didn’t feel comfortable around her and so on, so I decided to play smart to know what was going on. I connected her WhatsApp to my laptop, which meant I could see what she was up to without her knowledge.
Two weeks after I connected her phone, I saw a message she sent to my sister’s husband telling him, “He should not try what he did ever again because she knows what she went through the first time.” The first time was in 2024, when I caught her messages being deleted. When I saw this message, I was really upset and worried, what kind of message is this from my babe to my sister’s husband? I was furious, so I called her to come over to my place, which she did. I asked what was going on between them, and she said nothing, but the guy always tried to make some silly moves and tried to text her all kinds of messages. Please, help me reason this matter: a person is texting you over two years because she said it started in 2023, and she didn’t even think of telling me. The story is long, Rantz Fam. After that day, we had a gathering with my sister and her husband so we could know what was really happening, but this girl began to deny everything she told me. My head wanted to explode. That issue went on for a week or so, which we later settled. She explained and swore to me that there was nothing between them, but my head kept asking every second: if there was nothing between you guys, why keep it from someone you claim you love? I love her; I can’t even deny it. I really do love her to the point I don’t even consider many fine girls because of her. I won’t talk too much because this one I have already talked about goes far. This thing happened since February, but till now, I have never healed. My trust is broken. I’m trying to make things work between us. We are really trying, but this thing deeply hurt me. I’ve tried to forgive her and get it off my mind, but one thing keeps ringing in my head: what if they actually have something together? To be honest, I believe her that nothing happened between them because truly, she is not a girl who behaves badly. But you know, as a guy, when your trust is broken, it can’t be repaired or patched. I’m mentally down because since that time I haven’t been myself at all. Should I let her go or keep fighting for our relationship? I wish I could talk to someone. I am drained by this situation. This matter even made me stop talking to my sister because she didn’t even question her husband; she sided with him all along. That made me feel like a fool, like I don’t know what I’m doing anymore. I need help.
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