I feel I entered the wrong relationship. Rantz family, please judge and tell me if I’m wrong. About a week and two days ago, I was at my boyfriend’s place. We’ve been in a relationship for two years, even though we’ve had breaks. He had already told me around noon that he would be going to church, and I understood that he wanted me to leave. But I had been indoors all week and didn’t have time for myself. Even that day, there was no light to charge my phone, which I needed to order a ride. I planned to go the next day first for my hair appointment and then head home. Anyway, my boyfriend went out, and he expected me to come give him the key and then go home, but I stayed. When he returned, he started shouting at me and asked me to leave. This was around 9:30 p.m. I knew that by the time I got to my area, I wouldn’t find a bike or keke to take me in. Omo, I was just telling him not to shout at me because I was so embarrassed. He told me it was better for me to sleep at a hotel because he couldn’t leave me and his friend at home. His friend stays with him, by the way. I was already packing, and I left.
He had already sent me N30k, and when I got to the hotel, they said they only had a N45k room. I called him, and he sent N10k extra. Omo, I cried ehn. The next day, I woke up, unblocked him, and followed him back because I didn’t want to insult him or do anything I’d regret. That morning, before I checked out, I texted him and apologized. I did that because, yeah, I should have left when he asked. But lol, the reply he gave me was disappointing. He said I’m an egomaniac, stubborn, selfish, and that I act like a man in the relationship, always wanting my way. He said he can’t trust me anymore. He hasn’t spoken to me for about a week now. I’m reading between the lines that the relationship is over. My concern now is, am I wrong? This isn’t a big deal, for crying out loud. I’m fine with us being done because I know I tried—we both tried, in fact. But he’s owing me some money, and I don’t have money right now. I won’t get what I’m expecting for another two weeks, and the N150k he said he’d reimburse me would go a long way. Omo, Rantz family, what should I do?
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