I’m 22. I have a boyfriend, and we’ve been together for almost two years, but now on the verge of breaking up. Ever since we started dating, he has said every time that he is a bad person, but not until I stopped him from saying it. He’s the outspoken type, while I’m the gentle one who can talk very well only when I’m angry. He took that to his advantage and went around telling people I was the problem of the relationship. I’m close to his family. His mom told me several times that he’s not patient at all; he’s stubborn and he always stands on whatever he says because he feels like he’s always right. He does a lot of things to frustrate me, only for him to say sorry and give excuses that he’s going through a lot of things. Most times we have issues; it’s because I don’t say okay to what he wants and try to make him understand that this thing isn’t comfortable with me. He gets mad anytime I try to make him understand, which infuriates me. After having issues and his mom or friend gets to know about it, all they say is that I don’t understand or I gets angry easily, and he does that as well, but no one wants to understand the fact that he’s trying to manipulate and boss me without caring about my feelings. Do you guys think I’m not understanding? I feel I’m just trying to stand up for myself or am I wrong?
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