She had unprotected sex with a guy she just met within a week in December (she told me about it when we were discussing our experiences via text). Now we’ve been dating for three months (since February). We had s3x last week on two different days, but she keeps demanding condoms. Though I had condoms with me, I was reluctant to bring them out, but I would have eventually. She controls how we have sex, and we only did missionary and one round, no oral sex. She moves her face away when I try to kiss her during sex.
But with that guy, she just met, they did everything, including multiple rounds and oral sex. I asked her about it (without mentioning the other guy), and she said she was just tired and not in a good mood. It wasn’t like the two days were consecutive; there was a three-day interval. She sends me nudes and shows them on video calls frequently, even without me asking. I can’t say it’s about trust. I don’t know if I’m overthinking it, but does it mean she feels safer with a guy she just met than with me, her boyfriend? Doesn’t she love me enough? Please, I’m confused, guys.
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