There’s this guy that we used to chat on and off, sometimes a whole year we won’t talk, but whenever we eventually talk, he’ll just be ranting about his relationship issues or any kind of discomfort he’s facing to me. Sometimes, I feel like we aren’t close to that extent. He always says that he likes me but he doesn’t want to break my heart, so we can’t date, and I respect that. But whenever he’s in distress, I’m the one he runs to, like I’m his comfort zone or something. Is it not weird? There’s nothing between us though, we haven’t held hands, talked less of even ordinary kissing. I really like this guy, but I won’t push things because he already said he’ll break me if we date. At this moment, he’s back, he’s on his way to my house now, as he normally does because he just broke up with his babe, and he knows there’s no way she will want him back. He’s on the phone now, crying about it and how he can’t stay at his side (he lives in Osun and I’m in Ogun) that he’ll overthink and probably start smoking again because he has stopped. One thing I know for sure is once he is ok, he’ll probably ghost me, still, he needs me again. I don’t know what to do, should I just let us remain the way we are or cut all forms of ties?
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